What if the person you chose wasn't really your choice at all?
In this episode, I sit down with Kirby Fling β trauma and attachment specialist and creator of the Two Mind Method β to explore a question most of us are afraid to ask: if our subconscious wounds are quietly selecting our partners for us, does being in a relationship even make sense?
We get into why we keep attracting the same kind of person, how small moments from childhood end up running our adult relationships, and what it actually looks like to do the inner work β whether you're single, healing, or mid-relationship wondering if you chose the right person.
This one got personal. We talk about losing yourself in a relationship, building a life you'd be happy to live alone, and why a relationship might not be the obstacle to your healing β it might be the whole point.
Connect with Kirby:
π twomindmethod.com
βΆοΈ youtube.com/@twomindmethod
πΈ instagram.com/twomindmethod
Find Grow with the Flo:
π florianhohenleitner.com/podcast
π© growwiththeflo.podcast@gmail.com
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