We all avoid things — emails, bank statements, test results, difficult conversations. Not because we don’t care, but because looking at the truth feels dangerous. In this episode, we explore why avoidance shows up, what it protects us from, and how it silently shapes our lives.
Drawing from neuroscience and psychology, we unpack cognitive dissonance, intolerance of uncertainty, and the anxiety-relief loop that keeps us stuck. And I share a personal story of something I avoided for a long time — and how facing it changed everything.
Topics:
• Why avoidance feels safer than truth
• How uncertainty triggers survival mode
• The psychology of information avoidance
• Why avoidance reduces short-term anxiety but increases long-term suffering
• How to face the things you’ve been avoiding
• A journal prompt to bring clarity and courage
Keywords: avoidance, anxiety, uncertainty, cognitive dissonance, personal growth, fear, emotional resilience
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